Our minds play games with us.

As a mentalist, I create psychological illusions by playing games with people's perception.

Now I help high achievers and their teams see the games their own minds play, and install new mental models so they can perform at their peak while feeling deeply happy and fulfilled.

  • Mentalist
  • Global speaker
  • Executive coach
  • Bestselling author

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“I used to get swept up in a river of emotion. Now I can stand on the riverbank and choose my responses.”
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Try to work out how I do it

Mentalism is the craft of leading people's perception and creating psychological illusions. On stage it's entertaining and can appear like mind reading. It's really a deep understanding of the games our minds play.

I use mind-bending feats like these to let people feel an idea happen to them, or inside them, which is why it stays with them long after the session.

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The Mentalist Experience, highlights from the live show
A live experiment at Singularity University
On eNCA with Jeremy Maggs (2016)

The games our minds play

You're ambitious and want to keep climbing. But you're already at full capacity.

Pushing for even more sounds exhausting, because you often feel you're running on empty. The answer isn't “just work harder”. I've made that mistake more times than I'd like to admit.

The answer is in the games you're playing.

Every game has its own definition of winning and its own rules. And most of the ones you're playing, you never chose. Your mind picked them up along the way. Rules like:

  • I'll be happy when I get there.
  • If I go easy on myself, I'll lose my edge.
  • If they see me struggle, they'll lose confidence in me.

These mental models got you here. But now they're costing you in two big ways:

On the inside

Nothing feels like enough. You hit a target, and by Monday it's the new starting line. You're tired of paying for success with parts of yourself, and some mornings you wake up wondering, “is this it?”

On the outside

Under pressure you tighten up, and playing it safe becomes the norm. Your creativity and flow becomes blocked. And in a team this multiplies, with the hard things getting said or done too late.

Winning more won't fix it.

In moments of clarity you've seen how doubling down on winning this game is like drinking salt water to quench your thirst. The more you drink, the thirstier you get.

If you're like me, and others I've helped through this, you already know it's not sustainable and that something needs to change.

Discover a new way to play.

I've played these games myself. Now I help high achievers and their teams see the games they never knew they were playing, and install new mental models that change both how you perform and how it feels.

  • Clearer decisions under pressure
  • Honest conversations that happen early
  • Faster recovery and growth from setbacks
  • Deep happiness that doesn't depend on the next win

Lighter, clearer and freer, with room to grow again.

This isn't more theory to carry around. It's a shift you feel in your everyday.

“Stress is here to stay. I'm not scared of stress, but I'm loving that calm feeling, that deep focused thinking. Thank you, Gilan.”
Joni
Online cohort participant
“There's a lot of stories I've been telling myself which are not true about who I am. I feel a sense of liberation and freedom, because I freed up so much energy and focus.”
Yasmeen
Online cohort participant
“It has just made me on a day-to-day basis deal with decisions better. My interactions with people are calmer, and I'm more in control of myself, which really means I'm also more in control of the situations.”
Gary
Online cohort participant

Two ways to work with me

Gilan on the floor with a laughing audience during a corporate event

For companies

Change how your people see things, and the behaviour follows

  • Keynotes and workshops with a live mentalist experiment, for conferences and leadership teams.
  • Leadership and culture programmes that look at everything shaping how your people and teams see things, make decisions, and collectively behave.
  • The Mentalist Experience show, intelligent entertainment for events that need an enthralling centrepiece.

Let's have a conversation about what you need.

Portrait of Gilan Gork, smiling

For individuals

Deep Happiness, Peak Performance

Work directly with me:

  • One-on-one executive coaching focused on deep reflective work.
  • Join my online programme with a cohort of other high achievers.

Get in touch and we'll help find the best path for you.

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